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Life Changing Tip:
Have the Conversation with the Right Person!
We need to have conversations with the people we're supposed to have conversations with. This didn't come out of my head -- I wish it did. It's brilliant. But I have to give credit to T.D. Jakes. I heard him say it in an interview, and it changed my life. And now, I...
Working on Myself is a Full Time Job!
(Confessions on Self Leadership)
Do you ever feel like you might as well not even work on yourself because it takes so much effort, it's a never-ending battle and you often feel as if you fail as much as you succeed? I get you. Last week, I shared this post on my social media: Sometimes I get so...
Confessions of an Over-Functioner
I'm in the process of breaking a long-standing pattern of over-functioning. I can't believe it's taken me five decades of life to identify and do something about this issue! There are under-functioners and over-functioners. Underfunctioning people are overly dependent...
3 Things I’ve Noticed About Many Complementarians
Last week's post about deconstructing from bad marriage advice caused a little kerfuffle online, not in the comment section of the actual post on my blog, but at a social media site. A group of complementarians were miffed at what I had to say. I wasn't surprised and...
Deconstructing Bad Marriage Advice:
(How I’m Doing It)
I love pastors and pastors' wives. I am both of those things and have served in both of these roles for the past 37 years. I have received the majority of wisdom down through the years from ministers and their spouses. Larry and I leaned most heavily on this when we...
People Ask Me:
“How Do You Find Time to Write?”
I wrote a lot of my doctoral dissertation in airports, on planes, and in the car as my husband drove. The photo you see above was taken when I settled in to write for a few hours during a layover. Although I am finished with my doctoral work, writing on the go is...
What to Do When Things
Aren’t Getting Better
Reality check: some things don’t get better, at least right away. That doesn’t mean nothing gets better, but it means some situations may not, for a while. For example, there are diseases that are managed – not cured, unless God heals them. There are also...
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